Rollup merge of #132001 - lcnr:stabilize-coherence-again, r=compiler-errors

fix coherence error for very large tuples™

see https://rust-lang.zulipchat.com/#narrow/channel/364551-t-types.2Ftrait-system-refactor/topic/diesel.20error for an in-depth explanation of this issue. We once again specialize `NormalizesTo` goals to avoid the impact of erasing their expected term.

fixes #131969

r? `@compiler-errors`

Author: matthiaskrgr