Refactor command line flags to Options type

[DavidXU12345]

Let's refactor command line flags to its own type so that we can just pass Options to driver when constructing a new driver.

Is this a bug fix or adding new feature?
N/A

What is this PR about? / Why do we need it?
As we are adding more and more options in the CLI, let's package all options in its own type with validation.

What testing is done?

1. set volume-attach-limit-opt-in=true and volume-attach-limit=0

│ E1114 18:42:56.272709       1 main.go:39] "Invalid options" err="volumeAttachLimitOptIn is true, but volumeAttachLimit is not set to a positive value"

2. set max-inflight-mount-calls-opt-in=true and max-inflight-mount-calls=0

E1114 18:46:47.891407       1 main.go:39] "Invalid options" err="maxInflightMountCallsOptIn is true, but maxInflightMountCalls is not set to a positive value"

3. e2e test

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