[FEATURE][OP] Support FInplaceIdentity property for legacy operators

[shuo-ouyang]

Description

We notice that only nnvm operators support FInplaceIdentity property but legacy operators do not, which leads to InplaceOption failing when the storage reference count is large than 1. We add FInplaceIdentity support for legacy operators in this PR.

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