Rollup merge of #118943 - lqd:update-deps2, r=michaelwoerister

update `measureme` to 10.1.2 to deduplicate `parking_lot`

This PR updates `measureme` to the latest release to remove the last duplicates of `parking_lot` 0.11 we had in our dependency tree.

```console
Updating measureme v10.1.1 -> v10.1.2
Removing parking_lot v0.11.2
Removing parking_lot_core v0.8.6
```

Also removes `instant` from the allowed list of dependencies, as it's no longer used.

r? `@michaelwoerister` (Thanks for the release in the first place 🙏)

Author: workingjubilee