[SPARK-54105] Update integration-test-ubuntu-spark41 to use Spark 4.1.0-preview3-java21

Author: dongjoon-hyun

.github/workflows/build_and_test.yml

@@ -93,7 +93,7 @@ jobs:
       SPARK_REMOTE: "sc://localhost:15003"
     services:
       spark:
-        image: apache/spark:4.1.0-preview2
+        image: apache/spark:4.1.0-preview3-java21
         env:
           SPARK_NO_DAEMONIZE: 1
         ports: